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1.) Instant Bond
If you have met your Twin Soul, the bond is immediate.This meeting is often marked by the feeling of finding the one you’ve been looking for, before a word has been exchanged. You instantly find yourself comfortable with this person, as if you already know them.
2.) Telepathy
You are naturally telepathic with each other. You can hear each other think sometimes, especially when the thought is about you or addressed to you. You may also decide to call or text each other at the exact same time or without thinking reply to a question that was never spoken.
3.) Eye Contact
The eye contact with your Twin Soul is either extremely comfortable or extremely difficult. If it’s just the two of you, it can last forever, but if there are people around who can’t find out how you’re feeling for each other, you will rather turn your backs to each other than look each other in the eye because the eyes reveal everything. It is hard for you both to keep your eyes off each other.
4.) Aligning birth dates or other special anniversaries or dates
You should be able to find birth dates that align in a wonderful manner – same or close birthday, different year, one of you is born on a day that is significant to the other somehow…
5.) Overwhelming feeling of absolute unconditional love
The most ‘required’ sign of all of these is the feeling of absolute unconditional love towards your Twin (and absolute unconditional hate at times…) The feelings toward your Twin Soul are never tame.
6.) Explosive Chemistry
The passion is like nothing you have ever experienced.
7.) Unpredictable Separation
You can say or do no wrong when you are in the loving phase, but approaching the separation phase, the smallest thing can blow everything up and separate you for years. A little spat may end up causing a massive rift between you, and it maybe something you’d never fight over with anyone else. You’ll be forgiven for anything (given time) and no normal relationship rules apply.
8.) All emotions are heightened and exaggerated
Both negative and positive emotions towards your Twin Soul are exaggerated compared to a normal relationship. When it stings, it stings good – and when it’s good it is amazing. Twin Soul relationships may be very turbulent, your only chance of harmony is to clear as much emotional baggage as possible.
9.) Meeting young – separating – reuniting
Usually Twin Soul pairs meet quite young, in early twenties or younger, and meet up again after living and learning a bit. Perhaps even happily ever after? Maybe.
10.) Chakra pull – vibration
You may feel a vibration or a pull in one or more of your chakras – usually the heart chakra when you are together or conversing telepathically. You can feeling each other.
11.) Breathing each other’s soul
When aligned, you may feel like you were breathing in each other’s souls.
12.) Shared dreams or reoccurring dreams of “a mystery man” or “a mystery woman”
You may have had dreams about a mystery man or a mystery woman, or you may have shared the same dream. You also may have seen the places your Twin Soul has visited or lived in in a dream or a vision.
13.) Reoccurring numbers
You may be ‘haunted’ by certain numbers, they could be anything that mean something to you, but usually a repeated pair of numbers, most often 11:11 but may not be that. Usually they appear on a clock, but can appear anywhere. There may also be number triplets, in this case most often 111. Also pay attention to repeated dates.
14.) “Knowing” you are meant to be together
Feeling of belonging together, feeling of being two halves or a part of the same being.
I have written about my personal experience meeting my twin flame here. https://princessdeficit.wordpress.com/2013/09/21/this-is-my-story-meeting-my-twin-flame/
princessdeficit 
I didn’t know he was my twin soul till we separated.I met him on Twitter and we bonded almost immediately. I knew something was strange when 3 days after meeting him he got into a car accident and when I thought I would never talk to him again I lost my mind and cried like I had known him my whole life.he was okay and a couple of days later we reconnected.I was only with him a month before we separated but It felt longer.the attraction was explosive.we must have fought and made up half a dozen times and couldn’t stay away from each other.when it finally ended and we were separated (his choice) that’s when I started getting the emotional connections thru the heart chakra and intense sexual feelings ect that are not my own.he’ll come into my head or his name will flash in my head right before I get his emotion.whether its sadness, pain, or I can feel when he’s crying.sometimes there are days when I feel incredibly close to him tho we haven’t spoken in months.the question I have is that this has happened since we separated. I researched it and understand what’s going on.plus I am the more spiritually awakaned. I am dealing with my unfathomable grief and started accepting my new life with positivity and unconditional love to him.but he’s only 18.would he even understand the feelings that go thru him are not his own? I don’t think he understands at all why he can’t forget me.and he won’t talk to me so I can’t explain it.i’ve accepted were are not going to be together in this life.I meditate daily and always send him love and light.
I think I’ve met my twin flame. After my nde. The moment my eyes met his it was like..where have you been all my life. Same for him. We have almost a year relationship. Both of us married with kids. But when we were together it was like time stood still. I’ll post a letter I wrote. Please tell me if this is truly my flame twin.
I wake every morning an ur the very first thought on my mind i sit and wait to hear from you every minute althou i know im not going to..i crave your touch and your kisses..god its almost like your lips were made just perfectly for mine and when you touch me its like im in a different world and you leave your fingerprints on my skin with every touch..its like im in a whole different world you silence my fears and my inner demons..i cant think and my body is almost like ive been drugged my insides quiver..i feel passion in your kiss and touch and my god its almost like you can touch places i didnt even know exsisted..you melt me when our eyes meet i can see theres something deep inside you that your dying to tell me but you are afraid to bare it all out there makin you vulnerable..when you leave me i feel like im fallin in a down ward spiral i no longer feel complete like you take something from me when you do..there is so much more omg i dont even know how to even tell you it all……and he couldn’t handle kissing me bc it was so intense. But he just up an walked out my life with no goodbye no nothing. Any suggestions?
dear kandi,
my suggestion is to remember you are married and you have kids. i am a huge supporter of love, and especially twin love, however, CHEATING, or BETRAYAL is Never okay, ESPECIALLY if kids are involved. love is a pure and beautiful thing, and it cannot flourish in deceit and selfishness. You made promises to your husband and your children, when you decided to be a family.
While I understand your point of view. I was just wondering if it sounded like he was my twin flame. I am not fully completely happy in my marriage and always felt uncompleted until I met the person and when our eyes met we both agree there was something there that wasn’t explainable.
hi kandi,
First and foremost, only you can know if someone is or is not your twin soul. However, it can be confusing since you never know until it actually happens.
One thing is for sure. Your life will never be the same after you meet them. It is not to be mistaken as a feeling of “lust” or extreme passion. It is not per say physical but internally eternal.
take care
Thank you for helping me to get my lovely partner back in my life. I am so blessed that you used a non forceful way of uniting and reuniting us. Our past, presence and future seems to have all merged into one. You told me that everyone has a compatible soul mate whether in their life or waiting to come into their lives. I am glad its my partner of old. I did not want to really go and be with someone else.. You have removed the extra baggage that has been affecting us and holding us back. Peace to you. Ominighospelltemple@gmail. com
Good morning! I have a twin flame story like all of you and though the pain is like nothing I could ever explain so is the beauty.v. I met my TF twelve years ago, went to visit my brother at work and when I walked in the room there he was, the second I saw him I just had this complete knowing “oh there he is” as if I had just found something right in front of my face that I’d been searching for for ages. We didn’t talk but ill never forget that moment. A few months passed and I got had started a new job, guess who also started working there. We started dating almost right away, the moments we shared were nothing short of the best love story sappy fairy tale movies. But they were as real as it gets. But life happened, he joined the air force and moved literally across the country, he was gone for six years and we had almost no contact, but I could never move on…I tried, believe me. I convinced myself it was all in my head, that only a fool would hold on to something for so long with no basis in reality but a feeling. Eventually he moved back to town, and you guessed it, started working at the same place I did. But he ignored me as if he didn’t even know me. I was angry not at him, I understand why he had to do that, but angry at life. For all the strength it took to fight back my feelings and here he was again. It was unbearable. And the battle between my soul and middle-aged fierce. One day out of no where he called me, said he needed me and I was out the door in seconds, I thought he was in trouble or hurt but when I got there he told me how much he loved me, how sorry he was for hurting me and asking me what I wanted him to do. He was drunk. All this time I’d waited to hear these things but he was drunk and I didn’t want to hold him to something he might not really mean, so I helped him to bed and I left. He hasn’t talked to me since. That was over a year ago. I tried to reach out since then but it is always unanswered. We see each other occasionally, and we always just stare at each other..we both know. But we both have doubts. At least I thought they were doubts until I found out about twin flames. I had been meditating on how to get past this, trying desperately to move on, to find love, to find a partner but I couldn’t get past my heart. I felt crazy. Until the answer came, there will never be another. I took enormous peace in that. I don’t mind being single, and I would never have a relationship with someone I couldn’t give all of myself to. That’s not right to them or myself. As soon as I came to peace with that I had an amazing vivid dream about him and the next day quite by accident I saw an image on Google that was exactly the image from my dream..and it was from a page about twin flames. Finally I understand that we have work to do within ourselves. Finally I have some affirmation that all my knowing, and knowing him is not just some obsessive want. If we are not meant to be in this lifetime that’s ok. I feel closer to him now more than ever. Of course I still wish to hold him here, talk to him, have him close, but it’s no longer a need. I feel blessed beyond measure to have been able to look my other half in the face. To see the other side of myself through his eyes. To know a love like that. I can never be angry. Many blessings to each of you.
I have met my TF about 5 years ago. Neither of use were ready to begin a realtionship as we had both recently gotten out of toxic long term relationships. I don’t want to write a gigantic long post with a billion details.
Basically I’m wondering how do I move on now, we both needed to grow and weren’t ready for each other, went on to have a child with other people. I would never try to contact him and ruin his family.
I still think of him often, if not daily, several times a week. I was hoping the years would fade how much I miss him.
I don’t even feel rational caring so deeply about him. I try to mediate and cut the psychic cord that binds us ( or whatever it is). Nothing works, sometimes I feel like a bit of a nut. I am honestly happy for him finding happiness, why can’t that be enough to forget him?
I should mention I am single, not with my childs father.
At the beginning of the separation I felt great peace knowing that we would work out in our own time. It was a very strong, feeling, as sure as knowing the sun will rise tomorrow. How do i just move on and stop feeling that empty nagging feeling?
When he randomly pops up in my head, am I popping up in his head too? Does he feel tortured too? I don’t want that.
Thanks in advance
hi little bit lost,
I know your situation very well, because i feel the same way. The only way to move on, is to accept you will have that “nagging feel”.i have learned to deal with my heart wandering back to “him” and random tears falling down my face. I don’t fight those feelings anymore, because I have accepted it. Of course I cannot say for sure how he feels, and whether he feels the same way, but I learned to not think about those things. I leave the unknown for the stars, and hold on to what i do know. my feelings, my pain, my heart. For me, it is the truest love i have ever known. I move forward with my life, and my destiny, but my heart still remains thinking aout him. a tragedy? perhaps, but I have no regrets. take care
To little bit loss I feel the same way at times . I moved to Nevada and still feel this man . I don’t think of him every waking moment but I am still so very much in love with him as it was just yesterday. Edwina
Is it possible that you meet your twin flame when you are a teenager, there is chemistry but because one or both of you are too young or the intensity is too frightening, that you split up and go in different directions for several years? Is it possible that you don’t know at the time that it is your twin flame but years later start to have dreams about this ‘mystery person’ and realise who it is? There is also a birthdate involving 111 here.
I’m same boat as you all are. Met him while married to someone else and he is married to someone else and never felt such a pull and magnetism. He even stands across from me when in the same room. thank you for the advice princess. I can only work on me and I call it a spiritual connection.
Hi im here, because me and my twin flame has broken up last month, and he had already moved on with someone i know. He tells me he doesnt love her, but he wont stop sleeping with her. Im so hurt and confused because i always give him another chance, and i try to walk away but its so hard. I know right when i met him, he was the one, we talked about our universe and how we knew we were for each other. Ever since i been with him i started seeing the 11:11 numbers or triple 2’s, 3’s, 4’s & 5’s. Since we broke up he called me and said he started seeing Triple numbers as well. Does that mean he’s my True Twin Flame?
It’s true to me. No.9 the truest
Hi i have been across such situation of twin flames.
would like to share and also ask few questions on it to confirm twin flames.
Thank you very much for sharing your story. Actually, meeting with your TF physically in this lifetime (wether you are married or not married do not matter!) you have met because of you two set the plan before incarnated here on Earth and with the blessing of the Divine. Also, the recent channeling this Japanese lady received from the Pleiades starship beginning of this year states that meeting physically with your True Twin Flame, it means there is a spirit (child) who is waiting to be born between you and him. Also, they said that in the message that in the Universe, according to the “Law of the Universe” or beings above 5th dimension, do not have sex other than their Twin Flame. So, if we are following the Law of the Universe, marriage on Earth is just a practice until you meet the true Twin Flame. After that, if you truly become ego free and listen to your heart, no one will be able to have sex other than your true Twin Flame. You have met the one. However, Law of the Universe states that to choose good to yourself and the others so we need to make right choices in the right timing. Please surrender to the Universe. Meeting with the True Twin Flame physically in this life time, we all agreed before we came here on Earth to spread this “Truth” to mankind. That’s why we are meeting. The Master Creator’s will is to put Twin Flame back together again as a couple and create NEW EARTH (move into 5th Dimension), so that we (each spirit) can return to one monad and “go home” happily. This is the whole journey we are in. I am translating this channeling messages into English and soon will be sharing them on FB. Please look forward to it. They also mentioned the true sign of meeting with your True Twin Flame – “I AM Presence” will emerge. If not, one has not met their True Twin Flame yet. However, the holy timing exists. My TF and I met when we were 11, but I AM Presence came out last year when we got reconnected in 2012. So, each soul has this divine plan. All we need is to ascend into 5th Dimension so that we exist outside of “Time”, we will be able to be with our True partner. (it means, we do not need to rush, if one is married, one can stay as long as he/she wants in the relationship – until all the family members accept. We have time! Also, in the New Earth, the Law of the Universe will be written formally and spread the whole world, all people will naturally will accept not to mess with people who met their True partner. However, it takes time. But truth will remain in the end)
Love and Light,
Takako
Hey! I have met a boy and I felt lot of the things that you described. We were good friends, had a lot in common and we spent good times together. We were never involved in a romantic way,even if I loved that way, he had a girlfriend. Although, his relationship was really messed up and he used to talk with me about it, like good friends do. But other things didn’t seem like friends at all, like the intimacy we had, the way I used to feel with him (so calm like I was in home), the intensity when I looked into his eyes, yhe way we could speak of everything or just don’t talk at all, all the fun we had together, the nice things we said to me… That was 4 years ago, we were teenagers. Then I got mad about some things and lost the contact with him. Now I know that we both made mistakes and we needed to grow up. Today I still think about him, and sometimes I have this feeling that we’ll meet again. Do you think that he can be my twin flame and we can reunite some day?
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I believe I met my twin. It has been 3 months and is like noting I can explain or have ever experienced. I met him in another state by pure happenstance. I had an immediate draw to him. We talked and it was if I had know him forever. We communicate for hours everyday via phone and text messages. Its almost as if we think on the same wavelength and share the same feelings simultaneously. Its really hard to describe the connection, kind of the love you feel for your child. It has been the greatest 3 months of my life 🙂
I think I have met my twin flame and it’s been causing me alot of heartache. The story goes as such…sorry if this is long, but I feel if I share my story maybe someone could give me some guidance.
In 2010, this guy wrote on my facebook wall telling me how beautiful I was, liked many of my photos, etc. I didn’t know him, but we went to the same art college, hung around similar crowd. But I didnt know him at all. I told one of my good friends about it, she told me she remembered seeing him staring at me at a event we went to on campus. I laughed about it, and we had an ongoing joke about it, but i never really gave it too much thought. Chopped it up as a facebook guy just looking to pick up chicks or something. At the time I liked another guy so it kinda went in one ear and out the other type of thing. In 2012, I noticed he had followed me on twitter. Still flirting with me and throwing hints, he’s a musician so we chopped it up about music and such. He seemed like a cool guy so we would talk each other often on social network. One night I decided to go to this event/party. I remember this night so vividly because it was a strange feeling in the air I can’t really describe. For some reason, I decided to go to this party alone (which I never do lol) but this night I wasn’t apprehensive about going alone at all, which im a pretty shy/quiet person so it was kind of out the norm for me. I get the party and it super empty for some reason which made me feel weird about coming in the first place. I spotted one of my girlfriends from school and we go have a drink at the bar. I was there about an hour and was thinking about leaving because the party obviously was a bust lol. But as I’m sitting I notice *the guy* walk in. We immediately begin to talk and goes into how great i look, etc. The party began to pick up and I noticed he kept kinda following me, trying to talk to me. I’m a bit shy, so it was a bit awkward. lol. Anyway the party ends and we are outside of club with all our other friends that showed up. He literally comes up to me while im talking to my friends and then he whispers something in my ear then he kissed me, in front of everybody. I was a bit embarrassed so I just smiled and headed to a cab to go home. I was a bit smitten about it but I didnt really make a big deal out of it, as I was unsure what his intentions were. But that night never left my thoughts.
So after the party, we never saw each other again for months. We still communicated on twitter but never directly crossed the line in terms of meeting up, or trying to dating one another or whatever. New Years Eve comes and I mention my plans on twitter, and mentioned that we should hang out. We exchange numbers, but never got to hang out. We began to text each other pretty much daily but it wasn’t until February that we saw each other again. I had developed a crush on him I ended up inviting him over my place to hang out. but it was totally innocent, we just chilled out listened to music watched movies, college kid stuff. We didnt do anything, no cuddling, no kissing, nothing just chilled. At this point, I knew I liked him and we were beginning “talk” on the regular. We continued to text, and he was telling me how he wanted to take me out somewhere soon. The next night I knew I wanted to see him. I invited him to my place again, and lets just say something came over the both of us..and I ended up giving him my virginity. Totally unplanned, but I knew in that moment right before it happened that I strongly wanted to do it. Sounds totally dumb and maybe slut-ish. But something about that moment, I knew. He didnt pressure me or anything like that. It was def. mutual. After the sex started, I guess my attraction to him sky rocketed. A couple of weeks after that, we were laying with one another and he began to tell me how he was going out state for a job for a while. I didn’t ultimately show it, but I was felt this despair for some reason. He asked me what was wrong and I said nothing I just sat there for a minute. We decided not to put any title on what we had going on since we were not stable in our lives. About a month later in march he ends up leaving for work. We still talked, but the vibe was different, we didnt speak as regularly as we did. In April of that year, me and my best friend begin planning our summer trip, of which we decided to go to LA since I had been wanting to relocate there. Long story short, in June out of the blue he tells me a few days before he moves, that he’s moving Los Angeles to pursue music with his friends. 4 months goes by of not seeing him, not speaking much, both busy with work. The LA trip was in july, but we only got to meet up for a very short time before I had to leave. Those 4 months I couldn’t see him, I was so sad, missing him so much. At that I time I thought it was just it was just an attachment because of the virginity thing, but it was deep longing. I would dream of him, everything. We still would talk but not much. Later that year in october I went back to Los Angeles, and as soon as I get there I go to pick him up. He spends the entire time with me. The first night we were intimate for the first time since the beginning of the year, to be with him, to lay by his side again it felt like heaven. After the first night I was so high off just being with him and I thought everything was great. Were about to leave the hotel to go out for the day, and he tells me that we needed to talk. I thought were about to have the *lets be together* talk, but it went totally left. He told me how depressed he had been, and how he felt like he wasn’t good in relationships and that he wasnt trying to do it because he needed time for himself. I was distraught inside. I didnt understand. I knew he was going through something and having a rough time but I was still so distraught inside for some reason. He ended up staying with me for the rest of our trip, but he was distant acting, not wanting to engage in any intimacy with me. he never knew that I layed next to him and cried as he slept. We ended up not fighting the urge and having sex the last night of my trip, and it was so intense. The next morning as I prepared to board my flight. He carried my luggage to my cab and hugged me. I was so deeply sad, because for some reason I knew that would be the last time I would see him. he could barely look at me. I said to him “don’t forget me” and got into my cab. That was the last time I saw him. I spoke to him a few weeks after, asking how he was, etc. He was extremely distant. A couple months later, He stopped working on all his music projects, deleted all social networks, all his music everything. He had moved away from LA and basically disappeared from the world. I texted him a letter, letting him know how hurt I was about the situation in January 2014. He replied saying he never meant to hurt me, and that he would always think about it. But we both needed to move on. I never spoke to him pretty much at all after that. In march of that year, I began having very passionate dreams about him. Then I swear, the following week I had a dream he texted me telling me that he had a new girlfriend and to stop contacting him, and I was just hysterical in the dream. 2 weeks after I had that dream, I do some social network investigating and found out that he indeed had a girlfriend. I was absolutely crushed. I’ve cried about it everyday since I found out. Ironically, in June of this year I, too moved to Los Angeles to attend grad school. I still dream of him alot, its like we communicate by dreams. In the dreams, its like he’s trying to convince me that he loves her, but he can never look me in the eyes hes always looking down. Had a dream about watching him lay on this couch face down sleeping. Some dreams hes trying to talk to me like everything is ok. Lately, the dreams Ive had about him never include myself, they are him and his new girlfriend. Its like I’m a fly on the wall and can see them. I can see them intensely fighting in this house, then walking down the street holding hands and smiling. Totally weird stuff. I dream of him atleast once a week and especially during eclipses/full moons.
We have this thing with the number 2 and 4. We are exactly 2 years and 2 weeks apart in age from one another. Our birthdays fall on the same day every year. His life path number is 11(2), mine is is 9. (11- 9=2, 9+2 = 11, 11+9=20 (2)). I first met him on 9/6/2012 (2). I lost virginity to him on 2/23/2013 (4), the last time I seen him was 10/14/13 (4). Last time I spoke to him was in April 1st (4th month).
So sorry this is so long. I have felt terrible and sad about this for so long. I feel empty. Many sleepless nights, deep feelings of longing. I didnt know about the twin flame concept before visiting this site. Thank you so much for sharing this post. It has given me much insight to my feelings. This is something, I’ve never shared with anyone but it affects me so. Thanks
What do you do if its a famous person that has a gf & I have not met him yet just all signs like you all of said?Hes got a gf ?We have not met yet?
Never mind I sound silly.Thank you anyways.
Hi princess,
I don’t know completely if I’ve met my twin flame, but I know I’m extremely passionate about him. We are about 15 years apart. He’s older. He born a month before mine. He use to be my friend’s professor. The first time I met him I didn’t feel this magnet coincidentally, but did know somehow I would be seeing him around. I was happy and whole, or so I thought. That summer I started tautly believing I was beautiful and found inner peace, but the week after, I just out of no where went down hill. Had a my break down, cut off all my hair and went into a depression . I started becoming emotionally clingy and such. It was like after looking in his eyes I saw what I was suppressing mans I began my self healing journey. Since I cut off my hair I began avoiding him and soon forgot, or better yet was preoccupied by my pain. Well, one particular day we went on a field trip where both classes were invited and for some odd reason I could feel his presence. Every time I looked over my shoulder or felt electricity it was him near me. I am well out spoken child, but every time he came near I would shut right up, I was speechless, I just could stare and relish in his very existence. He always took my breath away. Anyways from that day forward I just felt like I needed to see him at least. I would pretend like I was going there to see my friend, but instead just stare at him. He would stare too. Every time we were in a group or something his body would always face mine. When he would talk to other people in the group he would only look at me. He always told me wanted me to be in his class. He even invited us to go the the b-ball game, but directed at me, even my friends noticed. We went but I wanted to sit far away from the door, so I could see him if he came. I don’t see him, bit I felt his presence in the gym. The next day he bombarded me with questions about why I wasn’t there and how he looked for me. Over the next year and a half I slowly opened up to him, by seeing him more and talking more, only because my hair was growing more. He always complimented me, actually he’s a different race and I typically do not date outside my race, but there’s something unique about him. He is a history professor and spent time in Haiti and loved it. He calls himself Haitian because the people there allowed him into their culture. So he’s fa snared with my heritage and that draws me to him. The problem is he has a purpose and I have a purpose and that’s a conflict of interest. He’s so passionate about his work. When he talks about it I see a fire in his eyes, it’s beautiful. Anyways I thinks it’s ironic how we kind of kiss each other all the time. He taught at my college a year before I got there,, but left my freshman year. He was suppose to be my teacher, but coincidently wasn’t, although he was my friend’ s freshman’is, she’s a year older than me. He came back the next year, my sophomore and was suppose to be my fitness teacher, he taught kick boxing too, anyways due to schedule change I had to leave that class, that how we met by the way. Anyways he was my friends’ history teacher when that year when she was a junior and that’s how we got to constantly see each other. Anyways, my junior year he was suppose to teach me because the year he left the school he got his PhD. But that didn’t happen -_- he got switched to a different department. Anyways my friend and I fell out, so I stopped using that excuse to go see him. I was always sad, lashing out at people, I felt lonely. Honestly, I just wanted to see, feel,and smell him. I was so heartbroken we could no longer talk. When we did I was acted like I was in a hurry and avoided conversation all together. Anyways my senior year I said I was gonna make a change and finally allow my self to indulge in his presence and take our relationship to higher level, but over the summer I found out he was fired because he refused to teach the subject he taught my junior year again. He moved back to his hometown and I’m devastated. I was grieving this summer almost like there was a death in the family, but now I cope. I think of him everyday. I dream sleep and eat him. I know there’s something in the future, or so I tell myself . I actually got an offer from a school in his hometown to get my masters, so maybe that’s a sign. In conclusion, are we twin flames or nah? Should I pursue him when I get my masters or allow bygones to be bygones. Maybe the universe is separating us for a reason. So for this long message, it’s just I’ve never told anyone about this and I guess I have diarrhea of the fingers lol. If it means anything he has a gemini sun and i have a gemini moon..
I found my twin flame not too long ago and in just the few months of our relationship it has been one hell of a ride…. it’s been very difficult, especially when we live 4 hours apart and she and I are a lot alike… we met at a time in our lives when it’s impossible to be with each other… and it hurts me that we can’t be together… I’m literally in so much pain that my body is feeling sick…when we are together the passion is so intense it is hard not to just hold our emotions back…. I knew there was something different about our relationship so I started looking up soul mate relationships because our relationship makes no sense… and when I found twin flames and looked at the signs I swear my heart literally skipped a beat… I mean almost all the signs apply… but both of us keep going back and forth whether or not we want to be together or not… we both have been distant at times… we tried to be distant so we wouldn’t get hurt… but when I drove down to see her there was no way we could be distant… we ended up making out very passionately…. but it was more than that.. there was nothing but intense energy… I felt like everything exploded… there was nothing like that feeling… I can’t describe it… the oneness… but she wants to run away… she says she just wants to be friends for now at least but whenever we’re together it’s impossible to just be friends… cause we both know in our souls we are more than that… it’s been very painful whenever we’re apart… but it’s been heaven when we’re together… right now we can’t be together..and it’s so painful the only thing I can do is surrender… my physical body is literally sick… and it’s terrible.. we said when we’re ready we’d come back together… but the feeling of pain is so intense I don’t know if I can hold myself together…and I don’t know why we had to even meet…every one tells me to just get over her… that what I’m feeling is normal… but it’s not a normal relationship… it’s beyond anything I’ve ever experienced… I don’t even know anymore…
When I was younger, 5-8 years old, my family’s friend had a son who would babysit my sister and I with one of his friends. I had a crush on his friend but he was far older than me (8 years or so) and I assumed it was because I was a young child with a silly crush. Ironically, my family moved into his family’s house 5-6 years later (by then I had almost forgotten his name) and they moved out of town. The house had a lot of paranormal activity going on and honestly my family thought we were going crazy. I believe I can read people’s energy now that I am becoming more aware of my spiritual side. But anyways, my family moved to a new city about 2 years ago, and I am in my mid 20s now. Just recently, my family attended the family friend’s son’s wedding. At the wedding, I talked to the son’s friend (which I completely forgot existed until this day). Right when we laid eyes on each other I felt something so strong and so deep in my soul. Just like an intense magnet just being drawn to him. I was trying so hard to make sure I wasn’t wearing this crazy feeling on my face. I have felt love pretty passionately before, and have fallen deeply in love before but this feeling was indescribable, unlike any other. I had no idea it was possible to feel so drawn to someone like a force. We got to talking and exchanged stories about our experiences in the house we both had lived in and confirmed that crazy things my family had experienced. After we were done talking, my family and I left the wedding reception. I had almost wanted to ask them if they saw/felt that energy between us but then I realized how absolutely crazy I would have sounded. The next day I still just remember thinking about the insane feeling I had experienced towards him. The next couple of weeks I didn’t think about it because I have been extremely busy, but last night I had an extremely vivid dream of him and I and his love for me, although I was confused in the dream, I still felt that powerful magnetic like pull towards him like his soul was reaching out to me. I just do not know what to take from this at all. This feeling I am feeling is different from anything I ever thought was possible, and I wouldn’t even say we know each other anymore. And on top of that he has a fiancée! One more thing I have to add to the story, is that I was in a very loving relationship about 6 months ago. My boyfriend had actually been trying to propose to me but each time he tried something wrong always happened and so he never was able to. At first I was so happy that he was going to propose but something deep inside of me told me that he wasn’t the one. That I needed to end the relationship because there is someone else out there. I definitely broke his heart and it was hard for me too but I had to listen to my intuition. I had seen other guys since then but nothing and I mean nothing has even come close to this intense feeling that I was feeling when I saw this guy again. It almost shook me.
I can relate to littlebitlost. Not sure if he is my TF as I’ve only just discovered this term, but all the signs point to yes. We met about 7 years ago, when I was 24. We worked together and I remember the exact moment our eyes met and it was so intense, scary even. We both looked at each other like, how do I know you? I felt like I had known him forever but couldn’t put my finger on where…At the time he was married, I’m married(and still am with children), so I was obviously not looking for this. We had a normal work relationship,we discovered we have so much in common, our childhood, connection to music, our birthdays(he’s 8yrs older), our daughters were born only days apart, our tastes, ect. There was no affair whatsoever, but at the time I was so confused by my extreme feelings for him. I could hardly walk by him and just feel the energy, even looking at each other in the eyes was intense and even co-workers would notice.
Now almost 7 years later I still feel a connection to him. I have tried to cut him out of my life and thoughts because i almost feel like this is an obsession! But just when I think I’m ‘over him’ BAM! I’ll have a dream about him, often I dream that it’s just the two of us looking into each other’s eyes, not speaking but not needing to…. Hard to explain feeling in a dream…. One time I dreamt he called me and all he said was ‘I love you’. These dreams usually come when I’m not thinking about him!
After the 2 years of working together we both too very different career paths but still live in the same area but I only ran into him maybe 3 times in the past 4-5years. I work in a very busy retail store and I know he shops there but it wasn’t until about 6 months ago that he came in. I was working alone on a quiet Thursday evening, I was feeling really anxious and high energy and didn’t know why. He walks in, and again BAM! I honestly thought I was going to have an anxiety attack, I literally went weak at the knees, my heart and my mind was racing. And I couldn’t stop smiling! I was so happy, surprised, delighted, confused! I could tell he was surprised too but smiling as well. I could hardly find words to speak to him, but it was in the eyes. He made a purchase and when I gave him his change it was like electricity when our hands touched. After he was gone I experienced many emotions, that went on for days. And again a few weeks ago my boss was training me on something and he walks into the store, it was like tunnel vision, (tunnel emotions???) and could hardly concentrate on anything else the rest of the day. But I feel so guilty as well, I love my husband and our family and I’m committed to my marriage, I almost feel like I’m cheating. But I cannot turn this off!!
So I guess I’m asking for advice, is he my twin, a soul mate, or is this karma?
Hey, I’ve been feeling very odd for the past week, because I’m almost positive I’ve found my twin soul. I’m a gay, nineteen-year-old college student. Since the summer of 2013, I’ve always been interested in him, but this summer, even though I went through hell with another person, I still think about him all the time. He works at a pizza place in my small town–a place that my mom used to work at. When I drive by I always catch myself looking to see if he’s working, or if his car is there. The guy that put me through hell wanted to stop at the pizza place and talk, and when my twin flame came in, it’s like he couldn’t even look at me, which exemplifies what you said in the article. I’ve always been drawn to him. On July nineteenth, I had a very lucid dream about him. We were spirits and we were in a garden with flamboyant colors, and you could only see everyone else from the top up; however, I could see no one else’s face but his. We saw each other and I felt a very particular warmth; he had a golden key that lifted and glowed from his neck and we looked each other in the eyes. That was the end of the dream.
At about the end of the summer, I went to a 7/11 to get a protein shake because I lost about 90 lbs my freshman year of college (I’m currently a sophomore), and I lost muscle mass from the ordeal. He came in from glass and my initial though was oh s***. When I went up to pay for the protein shake, my heart started racing–to the point I could hear NOTHING but my heartbeat. It was one of the most intense feelings I’ve ever felt in my life. Again, we couldn’t look each other in the eye. I’ve wondered if he felt that too. I didn’t know what to perceive that as at the moment.
It’s probably an important thing to tell you that although I’m a very sacrilegious person (a trait that we both share), I have a very firm belief in God. I came out at fourteen and at the time, I was the leader of our church’s youth group. Every revival, the pastors would emphasize homosexuality. One quote I remember specifically was that “if you were born a fag, you need to be born again.” Being gay was something I’ve known about since I was six years old, and for some reason, at fourteen, I felt like I didn’t have to hide it anymore and that this was not my choice and I could not change who I am (I tried and became very suicidal). I feel like he has been through similar ordeals. We also have broken home lives. My parents were very young, my mother was 14 when she became pregnant with me, and I know his father doesn’t have much to do with him and that his mom is almost insane. My parents became addicted to meth and then later oxycontin. I was taken by child protective services and placed with my grandparents, who had a very bad problem with drugs as well. My home life didn’t stabilize until my senior year of high school. I feel like he has had issues with things similar as well. In fact, in some ways I believe that he might have been sexually abused as a child. It just came to mind one day, which I believe is a prime example of telepathy.
I live four hours away from college, and when I’m home, i get severely sad–often within maybe hours of being home. My hometown makes me feel claustrophobic. In my hometown, I only have two friends. Now one is an hour and a half away in an apartment with her fiance and the other one is in nursing school. I have a tendency to become severely depressed in the summertime, and I can’t help but think that maybe he has a place in my life this summer, that maybe this summer we can be together. I found out recently that next semester he’s coming to my school. It was the happiest and scariest feeling I’ve ever felt in my life. This brings me to my next point.
I’m a nineteen-year-old gay virgin. It seems insignificant but in reality, I’m a very old-fashioned person when it comes to romance. I believe in monogamy and not spreading yourself too thin. I have no desire to sleep around. In fact, my aunt came out of the closet about a decade ago and when I came out she told me to be very picky if I chose someone in a town as small as ours (about 1,000 people; our county does not have a stoplight), because everyone is practically each other’s ex, so all that gay couples have feelings for one another. With that being said, I know practically nothing about the guy I’m almost positive to be my twin flame, which is attractive but petrifying as well. About a week ago, I had been thinking about him and it hit me. It was like a pulsating feeling. I told myself that I want him to be my children’s father, I want him to be my first, and I want him to be my husband. Since then, it’s like I’ve known… My mother, grandmother, and great grandmother have all said that they knew who their husbands would be way before they got married (which explains why my mom was so liberal about having a child at fourteen). Since then, I’ve been having a strange burning sensation in my heart at times, that I’ve never felt before. It tingles and it’s pulling upwards. I’ve been thinking about him and I pictured him in a car accident in a daydream and I started crying. When I get by myself, he’s all I think about. Sometimes, even when I’m in class and not alone, that sensation comes back. I don’t know what to do with it.
If Im sure that he’s my twin soul then does he already too? Should I be the one to make first contact? I’m just so confused on what to do. I can just see my life with him, and I’ve never felt anyone worthy to feel like a father to my prospective children, or to be my first. Everyone before me has just left suddenly or dragged me around, or used me as a rebound (that’s one reason I’m afraid to make contact). I have a knack for initiating contact with people that are involved with someone else, so i become basically their concubine. I’m just so scared, and so impatient. He’s on my mind 24/7, and I just want to make contact with him but I’m petrified of him not feeling the same way or cutting me down. What do I do? Am I just crazy?
Hi,
I just have on question – can you tell me where did you get the picture? Is it a famous painting or did you paint it by your self?
Kind regards
Shane
d .then suddenly one day he left college n went to his home town…we were not in contact for 12 years but I added him on fb but he couldn’t recognize me ..this year in June we chat n then he recognize me that I am the same girl..he was so happy..he wanted to hear my voice..but I was shy becoz he is the one who rejected me..then he told me that he used to love me.even he had photograph with him..gradually we became friend now ..but still we dint meet..but now he is married with a kid and I m single..he said he loved me more then any one n will divorce his wife..but in November he faced so many problem regarding family (his dad got heart attack) he said we can’t be together still he loves me n wants to marry me..I asked him tell me the reason then we had fight through chat..he said thank god my problem increased otherwise he was very serious for me..he humiliated me a lot n warnt me not to contact him…since then we are not talking..I let him go..but I couldn’t get rid of his. thought( we dint meet a single time only met before 12 years)..what should I do ?
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Hello,
I think I may have found and now lost my twin. But since the idea of Twin Flames are so new to me, I am a little self conscious of believing I really found my Twin flame and am afraid that instead, this was just a karmic connection. The reason it is hard for me to know for sure is because we are in the separation phase and this time I’m unsure if he’ll come back. In my spirit I feel he will, but how do I know that’s not just my love for him speaking?
I can’t really find anyone that can understand this love I feel for this guy. So if you still see these comments and it is not too much to ask, I would be so gracious if you could give me your impression of this connection I have to this man.
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When I met this guy, I initially didn’t think anything of him. I had just come out of a very long 3 year toxic relationship, and was so happy to be free…thought I had my issues all figured out. I thought that I had learned all that I needed to learn about myself in terms of love. Well I was WRONG. This guy–who I believe to be my twin–would just flock to me within the first few days of knowing each other. He’d go out of his way to be near me. I had hardly noticed until he spoke. I felt such peace around him, and it was so strange knowing someone was so intent on knowing me…the real me. It didn’t feel like a ploy to try to get in my “pants”, it felt pure. And there was something that intrigued me about him too. During these first few days of meeting each other, I didn’t feel anything sexual for him. It wasn’t a lustful desire that made me long to be with him. It was the purest desire. I simply liked something about him. I couldn’t figure out what, but I knew that I liked him. This wasn’t a crush, this was a liking that went on a soul level. And he had the same intense desire to get to know me. I felt like I knew him all my life, even though it had just been 3 days. In those 3 days I was telling him everything about myself, I mean it was like word vomit, I couldn’t hide, I couldn’t lie. I had to show him all of me. So I told him some of the darkest secrets about myself. I felt no judgement from him, I felt a sense of peace when I shared things that normally, I knew would scare any man away, ESPECIALLY after just 3 days of meeting. It was also like I had this mission embedded inside of me. On some subconscious level I just felt like there was a lesson I needed to teach him too. At the time, I just thought it was me that had to show him something, I didn’t fathom that it would be him teaching me something too.
The best way that I describe him…
He felt like HOME.
I’ve never felt that before, not even around my family. Not within myself, and never when I stood in my childhood home. It was only with him that I felt this feeling of “home.” It was the most comforting feeling. I didn’t think too much about any of this because it just felt natural. I wasn’t asking myself “Why are you sharing so much with him?” “Why do you feel so much better around him?” I mean this guy wasn’t paying me superficial compliments, he wasn’t making me feel good about myself on some superficial level. It was just being in his presence that I felt good. My energy was better. I just knew I wanted to be around him. This was a desire that was without lust, this wasn’t a superficial school girl crush. It was something so much purer than that. I had no expectations to be more with him…I wasn’t off pinteresting our wedding.
I just liked being around him…on a soul level.
It was like I could sense all the pure good that was inside of him, and it made me want to seek that out in myself. I started realizing whenever we’d talk that I was learning things about myself…why I was the way I was, how I got to be the way I was…realizing things that I had never thought of before. It was a real introspection and I wasn’t even aware that he was making me do it. At the time that I met him, I was really away from God. I thought it was just because I grew bored with the religious church life I grew up with. It was through talking to him that I realized I pulled away from God not because I was bored with going to church–sure that was my surface level reasoning–but because I was angry with God. I was angry with God for letting me feel abandoned during a time in my life where I was being molested and abused. I didn’t have anyone, I had no friends and my mom was emotionally unavailable and my dad wasn’t really in the picture. I had thought that I could least depend on was God, but instead I felt alone and abandoned. I realized through talking with my “twin” that I didn’t stop going to church because it was boring, it was because I was afraid that if I went back to church, that was going to be let down and abandoned.
This was one of several enlightening experiences I learned with him. He’d ask me questions about myself, why I felt or thought the way I did and I’d find myself having answers to these questions I never knew. Before him, I had no real idea why I was developing into the individual that I was in that moment. But the moment he’d ask me a question, I’d intuitively know the answer.
About 5 or so days into knowing each other, we were randomly chosen to work together on a side work project. We were on two TOTALLY different work staffs, and the possibility that anyone from his staff coming over and joining with my staff was high. Yet, for some reason that night our supervisors decided they’d send him over to work with me specifically…
…I remember this moment so clearly, I could relive it.
While we were walking outside to our work assignment, this strange bug jumped out of no where, and scared me. I jumped back, accidentally brushing up against him. That slight, unintentionally touch from me sent this literal electric pulse between us. He felt it, I felt it. Our eyes gave it away that we had both felt it. After that touch it was like a whole other part of me was turned on.
I RECOGNIZED HIM.
Before, I just knew I liked being in his presence. But after that touch, I realized how special he was to me. The unconditional love, the feeling of being in love at first sight–I mean, it felt like Cupid struct me–I felt it at such an intensity. I didn’t understand it because I was with someone for 3 years before meeting my twin and I had never felt such intense love for my ex the way I did for my twin. Why and how could I possibly feel so much love for someone I had only known for 5 days?!?
Soo let me speed up the story…
I ended up finding out he had a girlfriend of 5 years!. Boy was my heart broken. Devastated. I had never felt so sick before. It all felt so wrong, he was suppose to be with me. But this wasn’t a feeling of jealousy or envy. This was a somber feeling. I was in actual mourning. I tried to move on and for the life of me I couldn’t. This had never happened before, I was so use to guys being unavailable, crushes only being crushes…never progressing to more, that ordinarily I’d count my losses and move on. But no, that entire fall and winter I mourned him being with someone else.
And yet, even through that mourning, I wanted him to be happy and if the girl he was with made him happy then I was happy. I didn’t want to “desire” what was not spiritually mine…and although in my soul I felt that we were meant to be…I wanted to respect that in the present, God put him with that woman. I never revealed my feelings for him, instead I focused on being his friend. And although he couldn’t be with me because of his gf, I started finding myself just being happy with being his friend. I just wanted to be in his presence. To be at home. But those deep feelings of love were never to far off. They were always entwined with the pure energy and love I had for him.
For awhile that fall we tried our best to remain friends, but emotionally we were too connected. Eventually he just stopped talking to me. It devastated me. But I coped because I assumed it was for the best, him having a girlfriend and all. I thought well maybe this is God finally doing what we could not–Putting a wedge in between us before we commit adultery. I went through the entire winter and early spring with not seeing him nor hearing from him. He and this girlfriend had been together for 5 years so I assumed they were just going to get married and that I was so silly for feeling such strong things for him. I was convinced my feelings for him were also one sided because we had never declared our feelings for each other. We’d admitted that we felt inexplicably close and that we felt we could tell each other anything, but we never admitted an attraction because of his relationship. But even those around us could tell there was something on. I could feel his desire from his eyes, and he could it feel it from mine. So when the separation came, I just thought it was what God intended and that he’d go on to marry the girl he had been with for 5 years. But the unthinkable happened and in the spring, he returned with news that he and his gf had broken up.
Prior to his return, I had begin journaling, affirmations, and praying that God would help me love myself. I created a vision board full of self love affirmations, and one of them called for my soulmate. Now at the time…I had the very commercial idea of a soulmate. I was convinced during this period, what I felt for him was a delusional memory, although I still loved him, I had told myself he was gone forever to his gf of 5 years. So it was to my surprise that after 3 weeks of self love affirmations, and manifestations of reuniting me with my soulmate that it would be HIM that appeared…
I remember telling him one night while I was lying in his arms that I felt like I fit. He said he felt the same. I remember trying to think back to the times I laid in my ex boyfriend’s arms and if it had felt similar. It didn’t. This was a unique feeling all on its own, in my “twins” arms, I felt like I was the missing puzzle between his arms. I felt so loved, like I was wrapped in a cocoon of unadulterated, pure, unyielding love. I felt safe, I felt at home, I felt at peace.
We never had sex. Admittedly I tried, I had never wanted to have sex before, when I did it was because I felt pressured, like I had to do it to feel loved. I was also fearful of sex, because the few times I had did it, I was reminded of the dirty sexual feelings I felt from my abuse, and it was always quite painful too. But with him, I just knew on some intuitive level, that not only was it going to be an experience of pure love, not bogged down with feelings of hedonistic lust, but that it was going to feel amazing. How could I, such an inexperienced girl know that? I had feared sex all of my life, I was either avoiding it, or feeling pressured into it. Never had I ever wanted it, let alone believed it could feel indescribable.
But he wouldn’t have sex with me. He said it was not what God wanted from us, that it wouldn’t be right in the moment. He could of taken advantage of me, but he didn’t he respected me. So this, is the part that makes me feel like we were more than a Karmic relationship because there wasn’t a push and pull between negativity and happiness. There was only love, respect, and care between us.
Followed by silence and separation. But we never argued. It was always like he was so careful with his words…there was no need to be toxic.
Sometime after coming close to having sex, he started telling me how he felt entranced by me. He couldn’t understand how his entire life he was so controlled and cool with his relationships and that now with me, he couldn’t explain why he just had to be in my presence. He said he’d feel anxiousness to see me. That seeing me was all he’d hope for in a day—I felt the same. Being with each other, just smiling in each other’s faces was enough to raise our energy. Though kissing was intense, a hand graze was electric, we didn’t NEED to do all of that. Although, not being able to be in his arms was hard for me. I needed to be that close to him. Being unable to be that close to him felt like I wasn’t whole. This isn’t to be mistaken for neediness. It was the longing of being connected to that energy. That pure energy that felt like a whole, or like home.
He’d reveal to me things about his life that started to look a lot like mine. Both of us had emotionally scared and damaged moms. Both of us had fathers that ran from their families. Both of us feared becoming our parents–he his father,me my mother. But this is where the TWIN FLAME lesson kicked in. I had deep rooted insecurities about my race. I had somehow become convinced that because I was black (biracial–but nonetheless black), he’d never love me. He’s hispanic but is struggling with accepting his culture, he struggles with it so much so that he feels he needs to date white, blonde women to validate him. My greatest fear was his reality. I was afraid that I’d be REJECTED for love and ABANDONED because my skin wasn’t good enough. And he was pushing me away because he needed validation from a white woman.
Now I was seeing the ugliest side of him. He started telling me how he’d never date a woman in his race, how he hated hearing people speak spanish, he just started showing me all of the self hatred he had for himself and where he came from. And it terrified me because I knew in my heart he wasn’t ready to love me…If he could love women in his own race, he most certainly wasn’t going to love me. In these revelations, I remember thinking back to one of the first thoughts I had when I met him…and that was that “he only likes white girls.” Hey and there’s nothing wrong with preference, but there’s definitely something wrong when that preference comes at the cost of denying your own heritage AND denying real love and feelings because on the surface, the person doesn’t look like the image “you FEEL” you need on your arms.
But this deep seated cultural shame, it was my mirror! I had felt the same way too, I wasn’t going around rejected black men but I was fearful that men were going to reject me for my race!
Through these revelations, he started showing a discomfort in how close he had grown to me. He didn’t understand why he felt so attracted to me that he was losing the control he had in all his relationships before. We’d say we’d turn things down a notch and see each other only during the day between work and yet we’d find each other spending time at one another’s places fighting the urge to be more. Within days of this, he was gone.
We went from so much love to silence. I’ve since been living in my own personal hell…dealing with the reality that the person I love can’t love me back. Dealing with the reality that he has awakened all of my deepest, darkest fears of being abandoned…and he’s left me alone to DEAL with it. Meanwhile, he is now with another woman…a blonde, hurts like hell. My little ego tells me “see, you aren’t good enough because you don’t look like her,” but that’s MY pain. My fear. Although he has problems with loving himself and his heritage, he never vocalized his leaving for being because I was black. In fact, I don’t think its a racial issue at all. I mean don’t get me wrong I think he certainly does see blonde women as a way to validate himself in American culture, but I think the reason for his departure with me is because the intensity of our union was too much. See I would call him out on his shame for his race…and now in his absence he is forcing me to look at my inner demons of self hate.
I’m so sorry this is so long…I just had to get it out in perfect detail because this binding connection, this endless feeling of love I have for this man is driving me nuts. I’ve been praying every night that God takes this away, that I move on and forget him but nothing. What hurts the most is seeing him just seem so happy and nonchalant about the pain his distance calls me. I’m here going through personal hell trying to face my demons head on–learning about the ugliest parts of myself and cleansing them for the better–while he just seems to be enduring life fine, unscathed by the connection we had.
I feel crazy, I feel foolish, but then part of me just feels like this HAS to be something. Either way, for whoever read thank you. I do apologize for the length but I do appreciate those who take the time–if any–to read.
God bless and much much healing to those dealing with TF
hi m,
first of all, you cannot lose a twin. You may physically break off, but your souls will always be together. The soul after all has no shape, or physical existence. It is an energy and it will always exist.
Another thing to keep in mind is that you do not know if he is happy or not. The way someone may appear, or you may “hear” he is doing, is not always true. Life is very deceiving. For your own sanity, you must learn to stop yourself from assuming how he is feeling, because you will honestly never know.
Everything happens for a reason, and if a split has taken place it is for good reason. It is your choice to make it for a positive direction, or not. Remain focused on your own path, and your life purpose.
If you are questioning whether he is or is not your twin, time will answer it for you. Twin flame relationships are obvious, and even if you do not want to believeit you will be given no choice. They will remain with you forever whether physical in the presence of each other.
It has been so long since we have communicated . I now live on the WestCoast living out my destiny . I experienced this strange but beautiful phenomenon. I have moved on but the synchroncities remain. Doesn’t seem like two years have passed but they have and I know now the path I must take. It seems as though this phenomenon has just taken place but it had not. I know it does exist as my life has never been the same since the summer of 2013.
Edwina
I think I have found my twin ! And the whole relationship, beginning to end has literally shook me to the core!
I have not seen or spoken to him in 5 years, yet he still haunts my dreams … He still holds space in my head and heart ( which is how I ended up here) . My question is how can I not let him occupy so much space and emotion. I still find this draining some days , it’s been 5 YEARS!
I always wonder if he is thinking of me and so on. I feel like if I knew he felt just as empty at times , somehow someway it would make me feel better. Does that make sense ! Sorry for rambling
hi!
Like the last person said, I’m here because I’m very skeptical about this. I recently moved back to my hometown (I had been gone for four years). I moved in with my brother during the summer. The night I met the person I thibk night be my twin flame I was super excited in getting out of work and going to a dance. I remember very clearly that I told my self joking “tonight you’re finding your soul mate” (I did not know what a TF was at this time). anyways as I was dancing I felt someone watching me. I later that night found out someone was indeed watching me. we never talked that but soon started talking through facebook and he said he wanted and felt like he needed to talk to me. that for some odd reason he knew he’d find someone like me and that he was positive that was me. I really didn’t know what to say since I hadn’t even seen the guy. I felt something for him, something words can not describe. after that I soon entered school, and later found out who this guy was. I wanted to speak to him but did not have the courage to do so since I was already in a relationship. for a few months I didn’t talk to him until one day I missed him. I missed him like I have never missed anyone before. it was like I needed him. but how could this be if I had only talked to him through facebook? I soon started talking to him again since I couldn’t take it anymore. this time we spoke in person, we hung out and it was like I had known him my entire life. he knew me so well, better than anyone else. for some reason I pushed him away. I closed him out of my life again. and around the end of October my family was planning on moving again. my last day of school I was walking the halls saying by and for some reason I had a urge to go upstairs and as soon as I did I found myself alone with him in a hallway. it caught me off by surprise. I really didnt know what to say. all I ended up saying was that I was leaving and gave him a hug. I again started talking to him after that for a couple of days and found out his father and my mother were from the exact same place. again I pushed him put of my life and a month later I found myself missing him terribly. I can not explain with words how much I missed him. I again, approached him through facebook and we again started talking. this time in a more serious way. what scares me a little is that we both have a “freckle” on the same exact place on the palm side of our ting finger. the only difference is his is on the left hand and mine on the right. we both had a strong feeling we were ment for each other but distance was a problem. since I now live two states away. he soon pushed me away for that same reason saying “if we’re ment to be we’ll be”. all this might just be a coincidence but since I believe in Twin flames and soul mates and Karmics, that is why I have almost convinced myself that he might be my twin flame. I would absolutely appreciate it if you could give me some kind of explanation for all this. thank you!
Interesting. I have had similar experiences with many women who have commented on this blog. I never even heard of soulmates or twin flames before I met this guy. He and I are married with kids. We both work in the same place and we have known each other for 3 years. He always used to tease and flirt a lot but I never felt anything for him until 4months ago he told me how attracted he was to me. He also said we had a connection. U can imagine how I felt. I was surprised but I took it in stride but I was knocked over when he kissed my neck almost like he couldn’t help himself. But it didn’t go beyond that. From that kiss, my mind went haywire. Couldn’t understand it myself. I have never cheated on my husband. Never even harboured the thought and from nowhere, I start thinking of this guy a lot. I tot okay just lust. It will blow over. Just got worse. I think of him from morning to night. At a point, I started dreaming of him. Strangest thing about the dreams, they felt so real, the kisses in the dream, I could smell and taste his lips. I assumed it was from thinking about him. Though I told him about it, he was strangely quiet. Said absolutely nothing. When we meet at work, it’s difficult to walk away, from each other. We just rather stay and talk. I tried to prevent people from knowing but there is this look I get from others when they see us talking and its awkward. I tried to run from this, but I can’t help thinking so much, at a point I broke down crying. Am not a young girl so it’s not like I don’t know how to handle things but this is beyond me. For some reason I had this thought from nowhere that we had been in a relationship before. It was so strange. I just had to start googling about connections and I stumbled on this blog. At the moment we resolved to keep a professional distance cos we kissed each other again. Never has a kiss felt so perfect and lord knows I have had my fair share. So we haven’t spoken in 3weeks. I miss his presence so much. Whether this is love, I don’t know. I had a dream about him from nowhere yesterday, he came to me and held me and we were kissing. It felt too real. Am tired of this emotions. It’s draining me. I literally had to start focusing on me and my family so I wouldn’t be tempted to think of calling him. I deleted his numbers but I have them in my head. Imagine that. I wish with all my heart I could tear out these feelings from heart. It is well.
I met my twin flame when I was young, I had been dating another guy who hung out with same friends.. There was this guy my twin flame who I just stood in front of and just stared at him like I knew him.. It was a bizarre experience.. I had never known his name before but knew of his name when someone asked to met a man by the same name David.. As I mentioned I was seeing anothe guy when I met this guy..
Many years went past I was on a on off relationship with my ex.. Being with my ex and growing up I always felt lost and not adequate no matter where I went who I was with I felt very alone still and lost..
Many years still went on I was single.. Through my work colleagues I got offered to meet or get introduced to her boyfriends friends.. I decided to go!
As I went and met this guy on the first date which is the same guy who I stood in front of while I was with my ex.. Just feeling that pull which I couldn’t explain! Anyway I met up with David and I had this instant wholeness which scared me it was like I knew him forever… I decided never to see him again cos I was terrified.. Months went past all of a sudden we were bumping into each other at bizarre places.
Then we decided to finally catch up after all the crazy meet ups and finally we got together and it was amazing.. The love we had was something like I never felt and we couldn’t be apart.. Two years after we just kept on either him running it me running.. Every time we were apart it hurt like hell.. I had other relationships but nothing like this… We would get back together after being apart… Everything about us was similar we mirrored each other I’m many ways.. We got married had two kids and we are now separated.. This is the most painful love I have ever felt and it unbearable.. I never knew about this whole twin flame thing till someone told me about it.. I feel that he is cos when I’ve been with him it’s like I’m home just lovely.. Now that I am on my own wherever I am I feel like I’m missing that piece of me.. When I’ve looked back at how many times we have gone apart and come back together it’s amazing and weird.. Could he be my twin flame.. I feel very strong he is.. But very painful… Everyone tells me to forget and no such thing but I keep reading on tein Flames almost every night… Help I’m confused..
I met my twin flame when I was young, I had been dating another guy who hung out with same friends.. There was this guy my twin flame who I just stood in front of and just stared at him like I knew him.. It was a bizarre experience.. I had never known his name before but knew of his name when someone asked to met a man by the same name jack .. As I mentioned I was seeing anothe guy when I met this guy..
Many years went past I was on a on off relationship with my ex.. Being with my ex and growing up I always felt lost and not adequate no matter where I went who I was with I felt very alone still and lost..
Many years still went on I was single.. Through my work colleagues I got offered to meet or get introduced to her boyfriends friends.. I decided to go!
As I went and met this guy on the first date which is the same guy who I stood in front of while I was with my ex.. Just feeling that pull which I couldn’t explain! Anyway I met up with David and I had this instant wholeness which scared me it was like I knew him forever… I decided never to see him again cos I was terrified.. Months went past all of a sudden we were bumping into each other at bizarre places.
Then we decided to finally catch up after all the crazy meet ups and finally we got together and it was amazing.. The love we had was something like I never felt and we couldn’t be apart.. Two years after we just kept on either him running it me running.. Every time we were apart it hurt like hell.. I had other relationships but nothing like this… We would get back together after being apart… Everything about us was similar we mirrored each other I’m many ways.. We got married had two kids and we are now separated.. This is the most painful love I have ever felt and it unbearable.. I never knew about this whole twin flame thing till someone told me about it.. I feel that he is cos when I’ve been with him it’s like I’m home just lovely.. Now that I am on my own wherever I am I feel like I’m missing that piece of me.. When I’ve looked back at how many times we have gone apart and come back together it’s amazing and weird.. Could he be my twin flame.. I feel very strong he is.. But very painful… Everyone tells me to forget and no such thing but I keep reading on tein Flames almost every night… Help I’m confused..
I currently hate my tf. I loved him w all my heart and it ruined me but rebuilt me too. He’s mentally abusive and I’m reactive. Our relationship was either pure bliss or pure Hell. We settled in court over our son, whos birthday is 9 days before ours. We also both have children from previous relationships that are the same age w similar named exes who behave and look similar. His ex became w her current husband the same time as I did. Our kids are 3 days apart. My tf had a heavy alcohol and drug problem. He also took advantage of all the women he dated including me. He’s greedy he’s selfish and as much as I hate him I know his heart is the closest thing to home and I hate it. I’m done with trying and now I’m at the phase of letting go. But it sucks. I date and I ditch good men because it’s just not the same. That spark isn’t there and I know it won’t ever be w anyone but him. I just wish he wpuld stop bein a drunken selfish dick and all these dumb girls who came crying and warning me about him now are chasing after him again. Not me. I know who I am and what I deserve. And I thank him deep down for giving me so much hell that I was forced to grow thick skin.
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This is always something that has been interesting. For me, it tends to suck because the person that I’m drawn to has transitioned on. So I’ve never met them personally. But I always felt things was different as people can easily discount it cause one has never met that person.
Personally, it was the transformation part that leads me to believe otherwise. I mean, I spiritually awoke thanks to this person. I understood life in ways I never have before. I’ve delved into reading books on the matter, meditation, numerology, etc. The things she did. I figured out what I should really be doing in my life. What my purpose is. I no longer became afraid of death, which I used to be greatly. I started becoming comfortable with who I was in myself. I instantly got rid of bad habits I didnt like within myself that I couldn’t stop before. I was baffled as to how this is happening, cause I’ve never felt this with people I know and actually met. These are life-altering changes. Could’ve never saw this coming. I feel like I truly get what unconditional love is. I’ve heard of it, but never really understood. And I know of things she did, I normally wouldn’t like. Yet, I seem to easily put it to wayside effortlessly. Considering how she died, I keep telling myself if I could go back in time, I would risk it all to save her life. I could talk about some things that we’re alike as far as personality and interests. But it was this deep change from inside that told me this is something special. There was a time I was so distraught cause she’s the person I would’ve wanted. I couldn’t refrain from holding back tears like I usually do. She’s gotten the best out of me! I’m absolutely recharged! I will never forget as things changed in Dec 2013.
Hey,
I’ve read through a lot of these comments and i feel like I can relate to a lot of that even though i never actually met my twin in this life. I know he or she is alive and I’ve waited already my whole life to meet him. With the short 20 years I’ve been on this earth that might not be such a long time but not a day goes by without me thinking about him. You wrote earlier that people dont feel that until they have met their twin but since the beginning of my memory I knew he was there. When I was little around 5 or 6) i talked to him like to an invisible friend but entirely different. Over the last 12 years we have shared 3 dreams. After each of them I almost wasn´t able to keep living apartand for the next few month I wasnt really able to socialise with anyone.
I am a little empathic and react to feelings and energys pretty intensly. Once I met someone with an incredible strong soul who reminded me a little of him. He visited for 2 days and after he left I was physicly sick, bound to my bed for the next 2 weeks. He wasn´t my twin but I know him pretty good from past lives. Since then I´m afraid that if I actually meet my twin that it could potentially kill me. these violent passions have violent ends. Afraid might be the wrong word because as long as I have him with me I am not really afraid of anything. So my problem is that can´t Love anybody else. I mean I am a 20year old guy and would really like to seriously date someone but when I´m honest I know the Love I share with my twin is, even we never met, stronger than i could love anybody else. That means I cannot have an honest relationship with anybody else. Another point to that is my sexuality. I get asked that a lot but cant really answer. The closest think i can say is tha Im Genderblind, but trhutfully I am just atracte to my twin (I believe he is male in this life).
I would really like to hear an opinion about that since i´ve never shared that with anybody.
And please excuse any grammatical mistakes, english is not my nativ language.
hello I am so confused beyond belief, like I have seriously decided to give up, on this whole twin flame concept. I didn’t know anything about soul mates until they said something about it. after it was over I did so much research on soul mates and it described us. its getting so confusing because as time goes by this love I have for this person never dies, everywhere I go. There they are, there name is everywhere. even when am not looking for them, simply I just want to forget them. its like I don’t understand what god wants me to learn from this person. if there my twin flame or not, am afraid to tell them how I feel, because it has been years since we contacted one another, and simply told my self they have moved on, and so should I. my focus has been mainly on becoming independent and simply getting my self together, am loving my self, and told my self that It wasn’t meant to be. then something comes up that reminds me of a conversation we had. somehow everything leads back to them? I don’t care if they love me, I don’t care if they met someone knew. you know? everyone deserves happiness. its getting maddening. because I miss them, but they don’t speak to me. so why should I waste my time on someone like that? so I go on with my life. but nope signs and stuff. what is this? I’ve tried breaking the link, even prayed to god for some answers. some stories on twin flames I relate to a lot. I don’t know. I don’t know what to believe in anymore its as if this person came and smacked my face and now I seriously question my own faith. tried to come to terms maybe its karmic, or maybe its destiny. maybe I am just obsessed. maybe its all in my head. maybe twin flame is a fake, and its just a bunch of lulululalalala land and with people who cant get over someone and need a title to explain. I believe there is no such thing as coincidence. everything happens they way its supposed with the laws of the divine. basically, I hope am not going insane. I don’t talk to anyone about this. because I feel if I talk about it the more I wont get it over. but if had enough of this. I’ve had enough of this whole confusion and just want answers.
I think there has been some misinformation here…
A Twin Soul is a Mirror of your own soul…not half of it!
Think of a real twin in life, it is not one person cut in half, now that is a dumb notion…so too is suggesting that a soul can be split.
Of course it cannot. We each have one soul, and one counterpart. Sometimes they incarnate on earth to share that experience, in that lifetime with us, sometimes they stay in spirit so that we might experience something else. Please do yourselves a favour and do more research. Perhaps find older souls (not older people who are human – a soul is NOT human) who actually have done this a few hundred lifetimes…and remember most of them.
Dear Dee,
The concept of soul and what it is, is a complex matter. No, it can not be split in half “literally” , but neither can it be a “mirror” reflection of another. It has no form, and its existence cannot be viewed as a tangible, physical form. The existence is only recognized through senses, spiritual, and emotional. It is not as simple as saying, your twinflame holds similar characteristics to an actual twin, because now you are humanizing the aspect of a soul. The soul is pure, unbiased, and without any conceptual abilities. It knows what we do not, and is far more complex than we will ever understand. Yes, we have separate physical forms from our twin and our “conceptual” mind, physical form, and sexual attraction can exist separately.(which by the way is why many people can be in many relationships with people who are not their twin. What we “think” and what we feel are two separate issues and whether you want to believe it or not, if you meet your twin soul, you will feel the power of meeting someone who shares your soul. This is NOT a “literal” combining but a spiritual combining. This is why many twinflames can communicate telepathically and can feel the others pain, even though they are living separately and broken off. I have personally felt the pull of this attraction, and it is not explainable. We are completely different in “character” but what we “feel” in the deepest core is bridged together, leaving the only possible explanation that it is an experience of “sharing” one soul. It may sound unbelievable, but I can say from my own experience, that there is such a thing. take care.
Well what im seeing here is rather interesting,because im experiencing the same push and pull situation and its rather painful and like the death of the ego.
I met this friend on facebook and we where communicating eventually i met her by accident on halloween night we where dancing i felt that i know her
however i didn’t push my self due to her friends and other situations..
She was in my mind all the time over and over and i wanted to know whats the situation and why and at the end of the week she told me that she was the person that i was dancing with our conversations grew closer then i was seeing the 11:11.
Before i went to the usa i was seeing humming birds over and over, i remb the movie the matrix follow the white rabbit, im very conscious of alot of spiritual factors, so i explored i was telling a taxi driver and told him about the signs and the humming bird while was telling him i saw a sign saying one way with a heart sign next to it i showed him it, he told me its possible to find a special person we where on Manhattan bridge i went to a party that night and i got a wrist band “Watch your phone” i went home and after i went to a hotel due to some family situations so i was thinking about the signs and other factors and i watched at my hand and it said watch your phone i picked up the phone and the same girl called me….
After we had a long conversation and she asked me to play a game with her of trying to read her mind i guessed all her numbers, she guessed all my numbers then i asked to to close her eyes and tell me what she sees, she said that she sees a bridge, then i remember my conversation with the taxi driver,
so later on she told me the question i asked her about humming birds she said she use to take pictures of them, so i started to connect the puzzle
and it became very interesting.
Anyways i placed her to the test to see if she was the person i was seeking for eventually it backfired in my face due to that our communicated disconnected so i left it and moved on with life however her memories was in my mind over and over i wasn’t eating and felt sick over and over it came to my mind for over 2 weeks i asked my friend whats it about he said its deep love, my mind told me to view her Facebook wall and i saw a photo with two humming birds one flying away and one watching down, one was flying away then read an article about twin souls and the runner and 11:11
i was shocked i told her everything which made situations even worst and to scare her more she is not to these spiritual experiences she it freaked her out more and she said she doesn’t want anything to do with me, love is her destruction and vulnerability so i let it be… her moms bday and her bday is the same as my moms and her bday is 11:14
http://thespiritscience.net/2014/07/17/the-stages-of-a-twin-flame-relationship/
http://www.powerofpositivity.com/1111-is-it-happening-to-you/?fb_comment_id=888662277858024_889422767781975&comment_id=889422767781975
After the number 13 and 31 kept repeating on my phone, sign boards, everywhere i read an article about it of the sequence of “3” so i then i did some math,1 111 =3 = 1111 and 13 31 ying and yang, male and female, you can even draw them into a butterfly as well very scared numbers and odd im currently hunted by these numbers and im reading this page telling me the sequence of 3…. and the number 13 is there again with 11:11 i wanted to share my views because honestly i don’t know how to move forward her memories still haunt me….. and i just want to move on since she doesn’t want me in her life.. i accept that but the numbers repeat and hunts me!!!!!!
Hello I know that this might be a different story but as you see I’m actually only 13. This is way out of my character to do this, to read about twin flames etc, and it’s all just..unlike me.Well you see, I started middle school last year and then this…unexpected thing happened. I started to you know, get attracted to many boys, their all very cute I admit but then I fell for this specific boy. But there was still something missing. I liked him a lot, but then I immedietly lost interest in him. Then after that a short period of wanting came to me. I just suddenly felt almost desperate just to find a boy that was perfect. All the other cute boys they were very admirable but, I didn’t WANT THEM. One day, just a regular school day, during break I was just relaxing with my friends until this boy, he just suddenly caught my eye, and he was sitting at a table a few feet across me, and I was surprised why I hadn’t noticed him there at all. One look. Just one and I thought,”Woah,who is this person” he looked cute, but there was something about him I couldn’t quite put my finger on. And so he looked quite familiar, and I thought that maybe he just looked like someone I know. So instead, well, I compared him to a movie star. I told my best friend,” Dosent he look like this person?” But no. She said he didn’t even look like him, and I was confused because now even I don’t think he looks like that celebrity. I just knew that I saw him from SOMEWHERE I was sure of that. I just don’t know where and how I could have seen a face like his or more than that. He was so recognizable but yet, he was so mysterious. I knew nothing about him. Then as the weeks passed by, each day I got more and more attracted to him. Even I realized that he probably liked me too. We’ve made eye contact and when we did, oh, it was like heaven. He would walk past me and our eyes would lock. We would stare for like even as long as 8 seconds. When we stared into each other’s eyes it’s like magnetized, MAGIC. It’s like I could see right into him. Those USED TO BE the good days because we both felt love from each other, but suddenly things just went SO WRONG. Even I don’t remember what happened. He was still unknown to me I didn’t know his name, NOTHING. I just found his social media accounts and friended him and eventually learned everything about him that you can about a person. I decided to befriend him in real life but still nothing changed. In fact, it made IT WORSE. Even until now, we’re separated and I still, feel so much pain. One day I decided to talk to him, but then, it’s like my life turned completely upside down. He was about to walk away after school until I grabbed hold of his hand. He stopped and listened but there was this really horrible force pushing me RIGHT INTO HIM and I tried my hardest to stay put and tell him what I’m feeling but my stomach wouldn’t calm down and my toungue would not say the right words, and it’s like, my emotional and physical body COULD NOT AND WILL NOT TAKE IT IN. I felt like such a fool for even trying so I fled and left him standing there. I just weeped after he left. I was thought, ” What was I even thinking?” We can’t be together. He’s too cool. He’s a level grade older than me. I knew that we had to separate because he would leave in a few months. I kept on trying. It wasn’t the end yet. I had so much hope into him! I texted him, I tried to change my routes in the school hallways just to see him and did all I can JUST TO BE FRIENDS. I don’t even know what I did wrong. Why was he always ignoring me? Why was he never answering my texts?! I was frustrated and humiliated. I was so broken down. Why does he show so much interest in me yet avoid me and leave me out here in the rain? I’m here to comfort him SO SO MUCH but why? WHY WOULD HE DO THIS? I thought there as nothing left to do so I tried to keep myself from him but coincidences keep pushing us together again and AGAIN. Then suddenly I tried to look for information on the web on why he would do this, why a boy would do this to a girl. And yeah for hours of searching, yes I got nothin. I finally came over websites about twin flames. I realized that all those things they say people feel when they encounter their twin flames, I realized ive been feelin now those things all along! I felt him and i dreamt of him and it’s like when I look into his eyes, I KNOW what he’s thinking. But I thought, NO this isn’t it. It’s not twin flames or whatever. It can’t be and there came a point just 2 months ago where I thought just so I was losing my sanity. It hurt SO MUCH. Nobody could help me. There my heart shattered into a million pieces. I didn’t know what was going on. I liked this boy so much and accepted him for who he is and I know he ain’t perfect but he’s still HERE. He’s still in my heart. And I know he has feelings for me too and it’s quite obvious in my perspective. I just didn’t know what was left to do and there was only a few days of school left. The entire year, for months it’s like we don’t know each other, we’re not properly introduced but it’s like, the whole time we’ve been talking and know each other like we’ve known for years. But now the school year is over. He’s gone and done but I still can’t get him out of my mind. I still want him SO MUCH. I’ve never felt this way for a boy EVER. And I don’t think I ever will. Only for him. Just him. And I’m still so young!! And then I wonder, what is this? I laugh to myself, this isn’t the twin flame reunion stages because how can it be if we don’t talk or were not even close? Please I hope that you answer this. It would mean a lot to me because even though I won’t se him anytime soon I’m still crying over him. Do you think he is my twin flame, or am I just obsessed and going nuts? Is it even possible to go through the twin flame phases without talking? I’m just so confused and pls be honest with me. I don’t even know if I should get over him or not. I have to admit that this year has been the most exhausting. Or maybe he’s just a soulmate? Just one there to teach me a lesson? And sorry if it’s a little bit long, but thank you for your time.
Yes I know my paragraph sounds really cheesy to me that is ^^ I guess I didn’t REALLY explain my situation THAT thoroughly but yeah, I just wanted to ask another thing, because I’m feeling very weird about..this boy and it’s like my situation sounds so weird, not even about twin flames but it would be appreciated if you took the time to answer it anyway. Is it normal because sometimes when I think of him when I’m alone I suddenly get this weird feeling in my stomach it’s like butterflies with a warmth to it and it goes up to my chest. It feels kinda pleasurable and I’ve never felt it before. It’s kinda weird. But yeah thanks. Best wishes 🙂
Oh yes one more thing, sorry, there’s just this vision that keeps popping up into my whole life and when I saw the guy whom I have feelings for, well he kind of reminded me of it. I wonder if it’s déjà vu because I actually saw him IN THAT vision but I can’t really tell if it’s a past life memory or it’s just me thinking that. Ugh. I have a very complicated life and meeting him didn’t help. It’s like I wish I never saw him but, I WANT him next to me. Only if he didn’t act like everything was normal and I could see right through him. I could see that he felt SO uncomfortable seeing me after I keep trying to befriend him. Yet I knew that he liked me and I know that his feelings for me are real. I just don’t know why he would walk away so suddenly. He isn’t even the shy type.
On some research for someone else, I came across this great site!! yeah! having read and read a lot..I came to one conclusion…I hope you don’t mind me sharing it
The Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
So while you wait, enjoy your life, experience as much of it as possible and allow love to bless you in every direction.
You can be certain as you raise your vibration, your twin flame or soulmate will also begin to benefit from the energy. Whether ye connect in this lifetime or not, your making it easier for connections to occur in future lives. Be thankful everyday and live in peace with your heart
How nice to communicate after all this time. I went through so much turmoil Princess and am now at peace. I even thought my twin was my false twin but he is my twin. I met someone else who I was confused about thinking he was my twin but I know now that was not the case. I am now living on the WestCoast close to the mountains. I thought I would end up in New Mexico, but not so. I am further west in Nevada. I am at peace for the moment. It is still hard to believe what happened in June of. 2013. What a haunting and amazing year! The signs are still there. I constantly see 11 on the hour every hour and I am still in love with my twin after all this time. I have been gone now and have not seen him in a year but he remains in my heart.
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I’m pretty sure I met my twin flame for the first time a couple days ago, I don’t know his name, but we talked for hours without a feeling of being uncomfortable, he brought up all the things I love and we shared all common understandings, I felt very comfortable and happy with him even thought I had just met him, I’m not an open person but I found myself sharing more and more of myself as the conversation went on, I’m just not sure if ill ever meet him again but time will tell, it was all very beautiful
Hello, me and my twin flame are in a relationship now. We actually met in high school but he changed schools in our 10th grade year, this was in 2006-2007 I believe. In March we reconnected through instagram and from our first time hanging out there was a connection there. When we make love it is like nothing either of us have experiencesome before. We both have admitted to hearing each other’s thoughts in the process and I’m just thinking that we see extremely intimate or crazy . It wasn’t until after one love making session (haha not sure how else to word it) but it was incredible. We both felt something. I felt raw,exposed…in a good way. I was extremely bashful afterwards and he said I was blushing. I remember I kept asking him “did you feel that?” Atleast 20 times so that I knew it wasn’t just me. He said yes. Another time, when we made love he explained feeling like he was about to die and then a light taking over his body and that was the same night I had a full body orgasm. Both amazing and frightening. I never knew what was going on w my TF and i , I just felt like I was extremely lucky to have found him finally. We both know we were made for each other. He is literally everything I’ve ever wanted and I feel that he believes the same for me. We have arguments btw and they are very exaggerated I’m guessing bc of the passion behind it all. But we apologize quickly and move past it. He can sense when something is off like one day I actually talked to my ex bf and I didn’t tell him until a couple of days later bc I was afraid but I felt like I HAD to tell him ..but when I did he said he knew something was wrong or something bad happened that day he said my vibe was off. I think we are the same person exactly, like down to the anger problem. Or when we are happy we are really happy. There would be times when I’m at work on the computer and I would just smell his scent. I’ve always found it strange that when we compared stories of our exes that I explained to him how the summer of 2013 was really hard for me bc I was depressed over something my ex had done and I didn’t eat..I lost 9 lbs and took a leave of absence from work and everything and he said he had gone through something very similar that time too he said that his gf at the time had done something too and he was depressed and his dad tried to check him into a ward and took him to get evaluated. So weird. But I didn’t know what a TF was until literally 2 days and I googled about being able to read your mate’s mind bc I was curious as to what that would mean and this popped up. I am so happy and feel so blessed to have found my TF here on Earth. It is like nothing I’ve ever experienced before and I made him read some on what a TF Is and how would you know just yesterday and he was a little weirded out by it lol but he says he believes it too. When he read about a light overcoming your body while making love, that did it for him! He said “maybe that’s why I’m so attracted to you” I plan to spend the rest of my life w this man! I’ve always felt we were special but this is something else!
I am pretty sure I found mine. It was a knowing that happened from the very second we set eyes on each other. And that instant bond was mutual. But it was so intense that it put a wedge between us within months. Any attempt to make things better just made it so much worse until things went stupid. Seriously, it was like the universe was having a big laugh. All contact has now been completely and utterly severed. Does that kind of thing happen in a twin-soul relationship, and can it ever come back from that?
We all need to start a group. I’m in the exact boat…dear Lord…someone needs to help me. I haven’t been normal for the last 5 months.
i saw mine today after 6 months finally amazing couldnt stop looking in our eyes. he always asks me what are you thinking i dont answer because he already knows
He slipped into my life in March 2007, everything felt so comfortable, we are so different but it was like we just fitted together; the yin and the yang. From the first time our eyes met I knew I was looking deep inside that one soul in the entire universe who knows me inside and out. The electric current of energy flowing between us had been activated and no matter what the distance or obstacles between us the soul connection remains and continues to grow stronger with each day. My logical mind told me, ‘this is madness, go home to your own country and forget him’. My heart refused to listen and I know it was because my soul recognised him, my heart remembered him; I felt this on a very deep level within myself. I felt like I had known him forever but how could that be we are from different cultures, different countries, different belief systems. Then I realised the environment influences the person not the soul. It is our souls that have always been connected, it is our souls that are familiar, it is our souls that recognise their twin. I could not sleep I felt totally disorientated; my equilibrium was lost and I struggled to regain some degree of control. Despite all the odds being against us we fought for each other; the universe was telling me that this is the love I have been searching for throughout my earthly sojourn. Life felt like a beautiful fairy story; he awakened places within me that I did not know existed. We married in April 2009 and at last we were together. Emotions between us were intense, when apart we would yearn for each other, when together we would feel suffocated, when we were happy we were ecstatic but if we had a disagreement it felt like everything was lost forever. He became more and more depressed I became more and more anxious. He detached emotionally and I screamed out for love and affection. The loving, romantic man I married had become cold and careless and the bubbly, confident lady he married had become unhappy and insecure. But throughout all this our love for each other remained consistent, why then could we not seem to emanate that love into each others hearts like we used to? In August 2013 he told me he loved me more than he could ever explain but he could not be the husband I need and deserve then he left. For 13 months we spoke almost daily and met up weekly, the experience was painful but we could not seem to break the attachment, it was like an addiction. In August of this year he cut all contact saying we cannot keep breaking each others hearts this way; he made it clear he does not want a divorce but will not refuse if that is what I want. I have come to realise that it foes not matter what happens next because we experienced something so precious, so profound, so spiritual that it will always be a part of us. A whole new world has been opened to me, a world that has embraced me, welcomed me and comforted me in my most traumatic moments. My deepest darkest secrets and flaws have been brought to the surface and although it was not a welcome sight I knew I had to face my own truth alone. I have accepted that the person I thought I was is a carefully constructed illusion to massage my ego. I always knew that there was more depth to our relationship than physical attraction, comparability, shared interests and love but despite this knowing I have struggled to understand it. I could not even begin to discuss this with friends because if I cannot make sense of it how can they? They would think I had lost the plot, I am dilussional, obsessed, crazy! I know for certain I am not insane for during this journey I have come to realise that some things just cannot be explained even without proof, evidence or solid substance one just knows and accepts. I ask myself how can something do beautiful, so spiritual, so right be so painful? Then I realise I am like the fish on the hook; the more I struggle and fight the more painful it Is. So I try to tell myself to relax, accept, embrace the metamorphosis of awareness that you are entering into. It takes all of my strength and courage to fight the magnetic force of the connection that I still feel towards him deep within my soul. Somewhere within me he awakened a deep inner knowing, I am aware that I am no longer the same person that I was and I never will be the same again. A transformation is occurring and it is a journey that I must take no matter what; for I have no choice in the matter. The person whom I thought I was, whom I was comfortable with, whom I quite liked no longer exists, that person has gone forever and a part of me mourns her. There are times when I wish I had listened to the part of me that screamed ‘NO’ when I first met him. But then I understand why I didn’t, my soul knew him, my soul had no doubt about him and my God told me he was the ‘ONE’. The one that the universe sent to earth so that our souls could be reunited and I am the one that was sent to find you to enlighten us both. We are the catalyst that reminds us who we are, how magnificent we are, we are the mirror that magnifies our best and worst attributed. The mirror that allows us to dee ourselves in a new, perfect, transformed image. This journey is pivotal to us both for it is our journey to re-connection, awakening, ascension. So now I wait for I have faith and confidence that in divine universal timing we will lift each other up and be carried to a place where our souls will blend magnificently in an unrestricted flow of understanding, acceptance, grace and unconditional love. In the meantime I find some small comfort in my memories. Inside my head I talk to you to keep myself sane. At night when I am in bed he comed to Me and holds me in hid arms, the closeness sustains me through this void. Sometimes I am not even sure whether I am awake or asleep, the touch of him is so real to me, the smell of him so lucid that st times I question my own sanity. Despite all this trauma and pain, I have been diagnosed with PTSD, I am grateful to him for awakening my spirituality, for illuminating my path to the divine. I strive to be a better person, to be closer to my God, to be worthy of his love. I dream that one day circumstances will allow his heart to be mine again just as my heart belongs to him and always will. Maybe I am living in a dream world that only exists in my head, maybe it is all a figment of my imagination or maybe it is the only reality and everything else is illusion. If it I’d not real then neither am I, if it does not exist then there is no reason, there I’d no hope, there I’d no love. Without hope I have no life, so you see it has to be real, I am not crazy for God crested life and blessed us with love and hope to purify our hearts.
Dear Princess,
I feel like I may have met my twin flame, but I’m not sure because we’re young. I just met this guy a few months ago. When we met we quickly bonded and became fast friends. The really weird thing is that I recently found out that we were born on the same day and year at the same hospital while we lived in the same town and moved to the same neighborhood around the same time (about a four month difference). Our relationship is easy and comfortable. We make eye contact for long periods of time. A lot of people think that we are dating because of how much we hang out. One thing is that our views are very different. We see differently on various topics but we are both open to hearing the other. I also just feel this connection to him. I feel like he may feel the same way, but I don’t know for certain. Do you think that he could be a potential twin flame? Thanks in advance!
I’m not sure if these comments still get paid much attention, but if so, I would love some insight or opinion on my situation. I know no one can tell you for sure but I strongly believe I’ve met my twin flame. I am just skeptical because I don’t want my own feelings to perpetuate this belief to justify them.
But anywho, we’re quite young. We met when I was 15 and he was 16, and at the time we didn’t know what to think of our situation, but I knew something was different. I moved a lot and was a loner in school and never felt much for boys my age, never had a real boyfriend, but I liked him. He went to a different school, one my stepfather actually was the assistant principal at and he was the “lady’s man” and one day he told my stepfather, ” I’m going to get your daughter”, something I didn’t find out till years later. We didn’t meet maybe until about a year later, I knew nothing of him but once we did meet, he clung to me around others, he was very protective of me. Like in a sense he knew we belonged to each other. And now that I remember, this was around the time I started to see 111 and 1111 everywhere. and still continue to, 4 years later. We dated for a short while, got close very quickly, but ended up falling off for maybe about a year or so but then after that, he always came back, no matter what.
I had moved again, to a different state this time, but he broke up with his current girlfriend because he felt like he needed to be with me. He was my world and I was everything to him until the distance set in. He became distant himself and would often tell me how the way that I loved him and where I came from, he didn’t feel like he deserved me and didn’t feel like he was good enough. (I was from an upper middle class family, businessmen and bankers, doctors, that sort, and he was from a lower middle class area.) It never bothered me, I thought he was amazing with all the potential in the world for greatness but he could never get past it and it distanced us even more. I was afraid of losing him completely so I gave him space, he found someone to try and “replace” me so to speak, someone safer, someone who didn’t make him feel as much. And I realized I needed that time to start loving myself.
But he always came back still, we never went longer than a month without speaking, and he would always say something about how scared he was of me and I deserved better but he loved me and couldn’t stay away and just wished I could be closer, It was killing us both, but neither of us wanted it to end or be anything else.
He was my first everything, and whenever I would come back in town the sex was explosive, to say the least. Everyone else I tried to replace him with, believe me I tried, paled in comparison, I only wanted him because no one else could make me feel so close to them, so connected. I can recall one random night that always sits on my mind, where we had played, laughed, rolled around, had continuous pillow fights and were jumping on the bed in this hotel and then we kind of fell to the floor on top of each other, something out of a movie, and I had never felt that much peace in my life. All the chaos of our volatile situation, all the highs and lows of emotions, intense arguments because we drove each other crazy, his resistance, my passiveness, it had all subsided. Everything was quiet. And there was only us. And our breathing was in sync, and we looked each other in the eyes and lost time, and then just laid, and it was a moment I never wanted to end. We were one. I knew he was the one. The only one who could make me feel like this.
But of course that was only a moment, and then we went right back into the chaser and the runner phase. He felt everything I felt but was trying to convince himself not to and would avoid me when he didn’t think he could handle it. I laid my heart on the line every time, always willing never regretting, but he just couldn’t seem to meet me there. I felt the bond, but I felt his resistance just as strong. I started getting frustrated and would try to walk away, but could never stay away, especially when we met in person. All the frustration would fade as soon as we were in each others arms. We did the back and forth continuously, a never ending cycle.
Finally I got fed up and met someone else that was seemingly my prince charming and we didn’t speak for the longest we had ever gone. Prince Charming was great, bought me flowers, took me shopping, planned dates and outings, even vacations, always spoke on how he thought the world of me. His family loved me and they were perfect. Everything about that situation was perfect. Until it wasn’t. Until I realized how conditional the relationship was and as soon as things weren’t peaches and roses all the feeling was lost. And it made me realize how unconditional my love was for my Twin. There was absolutely no reason at all why I loved him. I just did. I did to my core. I felt connected to him, I wanted to be there with him, a part of his life. I wanted to experience things and help guide him through things I had already been through. I wanted everything that was real. Screw the flowers, I wanted us. I just couldn’t have it and it killed me but in 3 years, the intensity of the feeling hadn’t taken one hit.
And now here we are, almost 4 years later and at the same place. Trying to be okay enough to where we can be a part of each other’s lives but hold back enough because we can’t be together. Never in the same place at the same time and now I’m realizing we both have things to work out on our own, not just him, and all this Twin Flame talk has made me realize that even more. We meet all the criteria, explosive chemistry, meeting young, an indescribable pull and I feel him, I don’t know how to explain it but I feel him in my being unlike the way I feel for anyone else, even my mother (birthday the day after mine) or my best friend, both who I’m incredibly close to and believe I’m soulmates with. I even had a time period where I saw the number 23 everywhere and I had no clue why until now (He was born on the 23rd). I think we would have more signs like telepathy without the resistance but even with it, the bond has never been diminished. Complete unconditional love. I feel whole within myself, but a different type of whole with him. I know he knows too, he’s made random comments about our spirits being connected and his longing for me until we’re together again, how this is such an unexplainable pull on his life but he can feel how real it is, he just can’t let me in, so he pushes me away. And he’s not the “spiritual” one, I am, so to hear him say that is just so much more solidifying. I’m the more spiritually inclined one, with an “old soul”, often mistaken for 5-10 years older than I actually am not at all because of looks, I just have a lot of random wisdom, some recent, some feelings of knowing I’ve had my whole life(I read that could be a sign), like having an awareness of the spiritual world since age 4, so I assume I’m the more aware one, but he has these little glimpses of awakening where he’ll speak on something very profound but he’s always been amazingly intelligent beyond his environmental demographic. I see so much in him. We’re both far beyond the ideal or average but still have so much growth and learning to do. We are yin and yang, complete opposites but so much the same. Im innately passive, he’s aggressive and in your face. When we’ve tried to replace each other with people “more like us”, its always fleeting. But even our common interest in shows about people with supernatural powers has always intrigued me. Theres so much going on in this situation, and I’m almost sure, but there’s this little part of me holding out. I even had a dream with a strong male presence and we were dancing and then he dipped me and when I came up I don’t remember much except that his eyes were blazing green. It felt important but it didn’t feel like it was in connection to my Twin, and his eyes are brown so I’m just not sure. But it’s helpful to have these explanations of what may be going on here rather than me thinking I’m going crazy. Regardless though, I am thankful to say that I don’t long for God to take any of this feeling away. It’s intense and scary at times but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. He’s a part of me, together or not and that’s forever. I know that without a doubt. But any further insight on this long drawn out confessional(I apologize for it being so terribly long, I really do) is greatly appreciated.
I just stumbled across this concept of a “twin flame” and figured I’d check it out, even if I’m not into spiritual stuff really, rather philosophy. I also thought that it’s not my case since we’re not always in perfect harmony as a couple. But. Your post describes my relationship with my husband in a staggering detail. The way I like to put it: I met someone that I can’t get along with at all but can’t live without. Believe me, we tried that. I feel sorry for the people who have this kind of feeling in their lives but can’t fulfill the need to be with that special person. At the same time I feel that they are blessed, because this can be soul-consuming at times. I understand fully those who have chosen to walk away.
I talked about my feelings with some friends, but no one seemed to understand the intensity. I am a rational and scientific person, but some things are quite hard to explain (like intuitively reading someone’s mind on an absurdly detailed level, or that having only skin between us is still too much physical distance). I don’t know if I should share it all, it seems to be roughly the same story with everyone here. Anyways, whatever you call that connection, it’s nice to know there are other people who have experienced such a relationship.
Someone wondered if twin flames need to have a romantic (lustful) relationship. For argument’s sake let’s assume we have metaphysical souls in addition to our physical forms. From what little I read and a lot I’ve gone through, I have a little theory. Our minds connect on a level that does not take physical distance into consideration and the need for intimacy with each other arises from the fact that you try to occupy the same space to become one. Spirits can maybe flow through each other, but that is hard to do with bodies. We had a feeling that only way to be close enough to each other is to merge together for good (and this felt so weird at first, before conscious minds figured how to deal with this urge that is impossible), and this of course manifests as children.